I was having a conversation with a lesbian. She asked me what type of woman do I like. I didn’t know how to answer, so I said, Curvy ones. She said that wasn’t an option. I had to choose between butch, lipstick or inbetweeners. I was floored.
Why do I have to choose? I don’t know what I like until I see it. Frankly, I’m not too attracted to the butch type. If I wanted masculine, I would be with a guy. If I want to be with a woman, I want feminine. But at the same time, I’m actually attracted to a co-worker, and she isn’t very feminine.
I spend way too much time looking at Facebook pages. I’ve been attracted to several different body types, hair colors and skin tones. I do tend to like women with curves. I can’t stand seeing prominent shoulder bones, ribs and hip bones sticking out. To me, sexy is about an attitude, not appearance.
This is all rhetorical since I’m married, but it’s interesting to think about it. I honestly have no idea if a woman would even find me attractive. As far as men are concerned, I’ve never had a problem attracting hot looking men. That sounds conceited, but it is a fact. Lol, maybe because men are less discriminating.
Why do we have to label everything? Just go with what you like. I’m attracted to black men, but I fell in love with my whiter than white husband. I like the overall package, not just appearance. So, to answer the question of what type of woman I like, I honestly don’t know. But I do know when I spot her.
Bellaelena 