I’m a feminist. I’ve been one since I was in high school. But today, I discovered I like being dominated by my husband. I actually liked submitting to him. And that is so contrary to my nature.
A few days ago, he caught me doing something I shouldn’t have been doing. He was hurt by it. Today, I woke him up by touching him, and going down on him. When we went to have sex, he spanked me. Hard. He took his aggression out on my butt cheeks. I liked it.
It hurt, but I enjoyed it. There is a fine line between pleasure and pain. He didn’t cross the line. I trust him not to.
When we were snuggling after, he started lightly biting my back, and rubbing his stubble on me. And he growled. It turned me on again. I like bringing out the animal in him.
Then he had me on my back, with his hand at my throat. I have a major phobia about anything being near my neck, but I submitted to it. I trust him completely, and that’s the only way I didn’t panic.
It’s all about trust. I submit, knowing that he has the power to hurt me, but trusting that he doesn’t. It’s oddly satisfying to give up control.
I’m not a submissive person by nature. I get aggressive when I want sex. I’m not afraid to initiate things. I get things started, but I like letting him lead me from there.
Sex is fun. And a little kink adds some spice to things. The pain is only temporary, and it adds some excitement. I would never allow myself be beaten, but some stinging butt cheeks heighten the pleasure. The contrast between the pleasure and the pain makes the pleasure more intense.
So, I like being dominated by my husband. I liked being reminded that we are animals by nature. And I love knowing that he loves and respects me, and wouldn’t cause me serious pain. It is contrary to being a feminist, but then again, it isn’t. We’re equals when it comes to sex. I want it, and he gives it to me.
And, sometimes I just like being traditional. After we were done, I cooked us breakfast. Sex, orgasm, snuggling and breakfast. The world would be a better place if everyone could achieve that.