When I was a kid and we played the board game, Life, I always refused to get “married”. I didn’t know back then that I was bisexual, but I knew that I didn’t like being told what to do because society said it was so.
I have been married for 20 years now to my husband, but as a kid I never thought I would get married. I’ve always felt different, and been different. Maybe it’s because I’m shy, maybe it’s because I’m an introvert or maybe it’s because I’m bi. I don’t know. I just know I’ve never been “normal”.
I’ve never been an in your face type of person unless I felt I had to be. But I will stand up for myself, and anyone I care about. Don’t tell me what I can or cannot do. And don’t try to tell me I’m wrong or sinning because I find both women and men attractive.
I have no idea why I decided to rant, but I’m just tired of people telling me what I should do. You do your thing, and I’ll do mine. And I’ll love who I want to love. If I lived my life by the opinions of others, I’d be a miserable mess. I’m a mess as it is, but I’m happy. You can judge me all you want, but keep your opinion to yourself, because it doesn’t effect me.